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Welcome to 2023 – This Is Our Year!

It feels amazing to step into a new year. I love the energy of turning the page and starting new chapters. You all already know that New Year’s Day is my favorite holiday, and for that reason, I’m always so happy this time of year.

I’m excited for 2023. Truthfully, I feel this way at the beginning of every year. However, the past few years – while good – were not full of the buzz and hope that I usually experience at the beginning of the year. I remember feeling happy, but not “buzzy”, at the beginning of 2020. Of course, my ongoing health concerns probably factored into that, but March 2020 changed the world, and it somewhat justified my more neutral emotions as respects the New Year.

But 2023 feels different. It feels like 2015, the year I made my first vision board. This was also the last year of my college program, and the year that my marriage ended (the divorce was finalized nearly two years later). The ending of huge commitments signaled the beginning of my next great adventure. I don’t know that any of my current big commitments will end this year, but I certainly feel that there will be some space opening up in my life, giving me room to embrace things that delight me and move me closer to my desired life.

All of that being said, this year has such a hopeful energy, and I’m looking forward to seeing what unfolds for me.

I’ve missed this blog so much, and I’m ready to start writing more regularly over here. I hope you all will continue to walk with me on this journey. Cheers to 2023, and cheers to us!

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Making New Choices – An Update

Hi friends! I hope that you’re having a great holiday weekend! This will be a brief post, because I plan to go out and enjoy this beautiful day off.

I have decided to reduce the frequency of my posts on this blog. I would much rather focus on quality than quantity, and it’s difficult to maintain high integrity when I’m posting 5 times per week. I’m still undecided about how often I will post, but anywhere from 2-3 posts a week feels good right now. I’m guessing that I will occasionally have weeks where 5 posts will happen, but I can no longer commit to that level of production. I hope you all understand.

Thanks so much for your continued support! I appreciate you all. Take care, and I’ll talk to you all tomorrow!

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I’m Back!

Hey everyone! It’s been a few weeks since my last post: I’ve been busy with the Vlog-A-Day-In-May challenge. I completed the challenge (yay!) which means I can finally devote more time to blogging again. If you want to check out those videos, you can click here.

How I was living in May – filming daily (Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com)

It feels good to be back, and, even better, I have a TON of ideas for my writing. I won’t be straying too far from the expectations I set for this blog year, but I have some fresh perspective after making 31 videos in the month of May.

How have you all been? I hope the past few weeks have been good to y’all and that you’ve been set up for a fantastic summer! I’ll talk to you all tomorrow.

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Fibro Friday – Make A Fuss For Your Health

Happy Fibro Friday! I hope you all are doing well! I apologize for the premature postings this week: I’ve been concentrating on Vlog-A-Day-In-May and hadn’t gotten a chance to do much writing over here. Rest assured, the prematurely posted blog will be fleshed out and reposted soon.

Today, I’m sharing a vlog that I posted several weeks ago. In this video, I discussed why it’s important to “speak up” when it comes to your health, especially those that are dealing with fibromyalgia. So many times, our voices are silenced because many medical professionals misunderstand or minimize our experiences. Also, when you suffer from chronic pain, it can be difficult to accurately relay your experiences to medical professionals, which makes it challenging to get diagnoses and treatments.

However, we should always continue to “make a fuss”, sharing how we feel with our care providers and the specialists that we work with. We must persist until our concerns are heard, and we get the treatment that we need.

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500+ Followers! Wow and Thanks!

Hey everyone! I am not really a “stats watcher”: I don’t spend much time focusing on the numbers because I love this blog regardless of how it performs. I will occasionally throw out a follower goal, but it isn’t my motivator. My main joy is sharing my world and connecting with others.

Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com

So imagine my delight and surprise when I saw that my baby blog has exceeded 500 followers! Thank you for following and reading. It means so much to me that you all are here, and spending a little bit of your day with me.

That’s it for today, because gratitude is always enough. Take care, and I’ll talk to you all tomorrow!

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The Spring Checklist

Sorry for yesterday’s premature post, friends! I hadn’t finished writing my thoughts and before I knew it, it had posted.

Anyhoo . . . Happy Tuesday! Can you believe it’s the first day of the month? This February flew by so fast, and I (for once) am sad to see the last full winter month go. Though the warmer months are my favorites by far, there’s something bittersweet about the inevitable end of wintertime. I’ve made the most of this chilly season and the forced period of rest.

Photo by Valeria Boltneva on Pexels.com

I’m considering what the next few weeks hold for me, as I plan to enter this spring season. There are so many things to do, and I have to be careful to not overload myself. It’s so easy to bite more than I can chew when I’m feeling energetic and subsequently burn out because I signed up for too many tasks. This year, I’m keeping it simple and focusing only on the things that will impact my overarching goals.

That being said, here is my checklist for Spring 2022:

  • Start my garden. Last year, I struggled to prep the ground and do my planting on time. This year, I have more time and I’m feeling more prepared. I also have a lot of seeds from last year as well as some ideas for maximizing my garden output, so that’s motivating me to get started and stick with it.
  • Continue to work on language learning. I have an international trip lined up this year so I want to improve my Portuguese to the point of being conversationally comfortable. I’ve been studying for a few months, but I want to amp things up before I travel.
  • Pour into my “secret” project. No worries: it won’t be secret for long! But, I need to continue refining the idea and gathering resources. Once that phase is done, I’ll be ready to announce what this project is and the progress that I’ve made.
  • Decluttering big time! I have a great decluttering list that I got off of the Malama Life website (you can get it here) that I’ll be using as a guide. I want to clear space because having a lot of “stuff” can be a drastic energy drain. As someone that needs to preserve her energy, decluttering is basically nonnegotiable.

I have some great free resources for all of the things on my spring list. If any of these resonated with you, check out my links below (as of today’s posting, these are all free! So enjoy!)

For any sort of goal: Your Plan for Success by Ron Engeldinger, Stop Procrastinating in Six Steps by Gemma Ray

For gardening: Garden Design and Landscaping – The Beginner’s Guide to the Processes Involved with Successfully Landscaping a Garden by Rachel Matthews, Garden Potpourri: Gardening Tips from the Easy-Growing Gardening Series by Melinda R Cordell

For Portuguese language learning: A Bíblia Sagrada: Almeida Atualizada, Plantas Medicinais by Mara Zélia de Almeida, Conversational Portuguese Quick and Easy – PART 1: The Most InnovativeTechnique to Master the Brazilian-Portuguese Language by Yatir Nitzany, Portuguese Short Stories for Beginners

For my “secret” project: The Business Minded Creative: How To Live A Fulfilling Creative Life And Make Money by Diana Wink, A Handbook of Health by Woods Hutchinson, Old-Time Makers of Medicine The Story of The Students And Teachers of the Sciences Related to Medicine During the Middle Ages by James J Walsh, The Handbook of Salutogenesis by Maurice B. Mittelmark et al.

What are you doing to prepare for spring?

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I’ve Got New YouTube Videos

Happy Monday, friends! This is a quick post, because I just want to let you all know that I resumed posting videos on my YouTube channel. I have a few weeks worth of videos filmed and scheduled, and I’ll be sharing a few of them on this channel as different posts. Here’s my most recent video, for your enjoyment. This is a review of some Harlem Candle Company candles that I purchased this summer, as well as a little catch-up/chit chat.

I’ll talk to you all soon!

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August Goal Updates

It’s almost the end of the month, so it’s time to do a quick recap of how my annual goals are progressing. There is at least one goal that I’ve reached, a couple that I’ve revised, and others that are still in progress. As a quick reminder, here are my 2021 goals:

  • Publish 5 books
  • Lose 15 lbs
  • Manifest 3 international trips
  • Earn 6 figures in my businesses
  • Read 100+ books
  • Luxury purchases – Hermes, Christian Louboutin, Sophia Webster, Ralph & Russo
  • Cure my fibromyalgia

And, here is an overview of the changes I’ve made to my goal list:

  • Publish 5 books – DONE!
  • Lose 15 lbs
  • Manifest 3 international trips – Manifest 3 incredible trips before the end of the year
  • Earn 6 figures in my businesses – Earn 5+ figures in my business
  • Read 100 books
  • Luxury purchases – patronizing at least 3 Black-owned luxury brands
  • Cure my fibromyalgia

As you all can see, there are some changes to my list worth noting, as I discussed in my July Goal Update and my book publishing posts. Other than the completed items, everyhting else is progressing as expected.

I’m planning major promotional activity for my businesses starting in mid-September. I ordered some samples so that I can determine which Black-owned luxury brands are ones that I want to invest in. I’m still working on my fibromyalgia cure, as well as my weight loss. My book goals are still coming along well, and I’m feeling confident that I’m closer to my goals than I could have ever dreamed.

That’s it for August! Sometimes, there aren’t major changes: there may only be incremental steps that will eventually come together to create enormous shifts. But those small steps are worth praising, thus this post. I hope you all are doing well and making progress toward your goals for the year!